In all different shapes and sizes, they have their own unique personalities.
How they have been brought up makes a big difference in so many ways.
Genetics, DNA are involved how they handle their situations and are
able to cope. What they do have in common they do not like change,
need to control their environment, looks like they are self centered
in many ways when it comes to family issues. They love animals
and can relate to them better than people because they
love you back unconditionally and do not judge.
Having this syndrome they are very smart, highly focusing on things
that interest them and forgetting to eat sometimes, they are in their
own zone. Learned masking to be able to fit in, anxiety consuming
them can become daunting, if they cannot calm their brain down it's exhausting. Finding in everyway possible to survive especially
if they are empaths living in this unfamiliar world of theirs. What's wonderful! They are Resilient, Awesome and Authentic
Actors~ Poets~ Authors~ Designers~ Hairdressers. Many are in
the arts because they are extremely creative and visual and have
learned to live in this vast universe by studying others, and have
become very good at it. Because they love animals and having
that bond could go into that field by working with them. They
are inquisitive wanting to know more and thinking outside
the box. Some have become Psychics in the Spiritual field
and are very good at their Craft, because they could be
Empaths have Gifts others don’t have. Being Highly
Sensitive picking up vibes, Having an Antenna
Reaching Far and Wide.
Females if they don’t understand their gifts and being an empath
it will become confusing, cause them many problems, bringing
on high Anxiety trying to understand and second guessing
themselves. Especially when older, it's very Important to
look after their Health & Well Being by Building their
Immune System making it Vibrant and Strong.
If they don’t Understand themselves and not having the right
Guidance and Support this will affect them Tremendously.
Sometimes not Comprehending the Consequences of their
actions. Some turning to street Drugs getting into Trouble.
Others using Alcohol or both trying to be able to Function
the Best way Possible. OCD can be overwhelming and
Some having auto immune disorders in their family
as on her mother's side of the family. Many could
be under the Autism Spectrum and having no idea
Why They Are Suffering!!!
They need to Calm their Nerves and Brain down, lower their Stress.
That's one of the most important things for them. Some wanting to be left alone to do their own thing. It's exhausting picking
up energies they do not need or want. To be able to live on
this planet and she's been here for over 73 years. Aspies
seem to seek each other out and many living
together especially in this day and age.
They do not like all the pomp and ceremony of marriage, too stressful
doesn't mean they will not get married it's usually for their family
They would rather spend their money on other things. They
feel comfortable in each other's presence even though they
can drive each other crazy sometimes. They just want to
be accepted for who they are do not want negativity and
have a strong will. When they meet another Aspie and are
on the same wavelength getting their persona they can
be themselves. There's Asperger's on her father's side
of the family she knows her father had Asperger's
the way he acted and can understand why.
Even Dr. Tony Attwood's son had a lot of difficulties when
growing up and not knowing he had Asperger's. He ended
up in prison, that's what can happen getting on the wrong
side of the law; with a person under the Autism Spectrum.
The reason why? Sometimes it's hard to detect in families
with the gene, and then if they do not get the support
they desperately need. Don't forget Autism Spectrum
was only discovered widely in Males in the 90s. Females
later because they were Good at Masking. As she had
Shared in her Third Video becoming a Chameleon.
Now quite a few of the Younger Generation especially autistic thinking if they change their Gender. A He to a She and Visa Versa they will feel better,
to find out later it was the Biggest Mistake for some of them. They
do not realize the medication and hormones they have to take
for the rest of their lives. The operations are very painful and
then to find out they want to go back to their original gender
and will never be able to have children. Trans Regret
Wanting to fit in and have Friends. They Can be Hilarious
and have a Great Sense of Humour. Look at these
Asperger's Male Comedians if you
Want to have a Good Laugh
Many have no idea they are autistic and never been diagnosed and
if they have usually with Bipolar~OCD ~ADD ~Depression~ Personality Disorder~ PTSD and everything else under the sun even schizophrenia
, never with the autism. Why? Because they have learned Masking
hiding behind their facade just like her Becoming a Chameleon.
They know they are different and have all sorts of careers. Teachers~Engineers~Doctors~Politicians~Psychiatrists
~Psychologists~ Scientists~ Philosophers~ Inventors extremely
focused have come out with Incredible, Remarkable Inventions
Both Tesla & Einstein had many failures and both had a hard life, never
gave up in what they believed in; Highly focused and Brilliant minds.
The hardships they went through and look at what they Achieved.
Ask Dr. Tony - February 2023 ANXIOUS 17,107 views Jan 31, 2023
Ask Tony Attwood excellent, excellent information on ASP. Addresses
Subjects Addressed in this Episode:
- ASD and Narcissistic Personality Disorder
- Myers Briggs and ASD
Telling the family they have it too!
Living with Autism
- Estrangement and ASD -
- Common physical health problems -
- Psychosis and autism. What's the difference?
How do I deal with this?
Catastrophizing and Anxiety
Masking and Making and Keeping Friends -
Multiple masks for different audiences -
Empathetic Attunement -
ASD and animal love -
Intimacy Dating Sex and Marriage -
"Neither of us like the idea of a wedding" -
-Asperger's and PTSD -
I highly recommend for more Ask Tony videos go to
Criag Evens channel autismhangout (dotcom)
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